Having dealt with several psychopaths in recent years I have learnt to detect them in short order and my advice to anyone who has to deal with them is this – get as far away from them as you can. It is usually impossible to compromise or rationalise with a psychopath and they have no limits to the severity of their actions in order to obtain control. In addition to exhibiting a lack of empathy and gravitating toward positions of power, control, and influence, psychopaths also have a tendency to use projection as a form of defence. If you challenge them, they have an innate ability to turn around an argument and make the victim feel as if they are in the wrong. Their traits and modus operandi are well known, however what really interests me is the psychology of the people that tolerate and defend them. I worked for an organisation that was run by a Manager and his ‘lieutenant’ who were demonstrably (at least to me) psychopathic. Yet no matter how I tried to elucidate to my fellow employees to the reality of their behaviour (which had tangible consequences to the business) – no one ever sided with me. In fact on the contrary, their behaviour was defended! The whole experience left me with a profound sense of despair because it was analogous at the macro level. We have psychopaths controlling the world and many people (if not the majority) appear to be suffering from a severe form of cognitive dissonance that ensures the malevolent status quo continues unabated.
TC
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Well written article, with many applications. Since my psychopathic landlord is around right now (let's call him Jim to protect his 'identity'), I would like to offer a few suggestions on how to handle them.
First of all, Jim fits every description in your article. His favorite pastime is going around preaching at various churches; rarely the same one, of course; for some reason they keep splintering apart into warring factions. Jim nicely displays the complete lack of empathy or self-judging (which others may call guilt, but I don't subscribe to guilt). He will admit that he has done something wrong, but Jim always has a good reason. Um... there is no good reason to do something wrong.
So. I've found a few things that he will respond to. Calm resistance in the face of severe conflict puzzles him, because Jim understands from experience that only he is capable of being calm in these situations. The reason a psychopath can be calm when you are brewing with rage is simple: He really doesn't care; but he knows you do, and is playing you. But to simply say "No" and back it up (calmly) stops him when things get really rough. I have had to physically stand between my wife and Jim to prevent him from "getting into her bubble"; that is getting close enough to produce the anger that he needed in her to control the situation. It would have been quite comical had it been filmed.
Jim is deeply interested in everything about me and everyone else. People like this kind of attention; it's rare. He files all these facts away, and before you know it, you feel the knife slipping into your back. The only effective way of countering this other than being ruder than we should ever have to be, is to ask as many and more questions back. A chronic liar does not lie just when it advantages him; he cannot tell the truth at all. After surprisingly few questions, this becomes evident, and Jim will stop trying to ask questions or leave.
Lastly (this is a comment not an article, though I'd love to do an article), remember who you are. While occasionally we have to 'react' to negativity, there is no reason that we need to think or act negatively, even toward a psychopath (and I do not consider putting a psychopath in the electric chair necessarily 'negative', it could be a great kindness.) Jim is often thrown completely off his game when I greet him cheerfully, or as the other week, help him fix his truck, when by all rights I should be suing his pants off after turning the garden hose on him. But just because Jim is pyscho, should I stop acting like a human being? Jim depends on people getting completely fed up with him so he can burn the bridges behind and not be bothered by his past... there's just too many new victims around. I don't play that game.
Jim's not going away anytime soon, but neither am I. It's been nice having him around --a book could be written-- because I've learned an enormous amount about how utterly depraved these people are, but more valuable, I've learned that I don't have to let it affect me.
peace,
ducq
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I hear
We are a strong people.
I have faith but yet some fear .that we may not act soon enough to avoid mass loss of life.
There are more and more of us that have been awaken
Too many put events in Gods hands but are we not Gods hands.
We have many a good man in our armed forces.
We need a leader
How he gets people together to hear what is can do done.
What action are we to take.
Perhaps that four-star general that was just fired.
Or General Clark has retired maybe he could be approached
I hear (Anon)
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Paul-
I enjoy your columns very much and want to comment on some of the ‘phonies’ you have mentioned. My parents taught me to ‘beware the person who sets himself or herself up as the epitome of all virtue.’(I am exaggerating a bit to make a point, but am sure you understand.)They told me that these so-called virtuous persons often have something to hide or need something to detract from their actual performances and deeds! A truly good person does not have to say so-his behavior is obvious. And a phoney do-gooder is easily identified because when you are in a certain mode of behavior, it becomes so much a part of you that it is difficult for you to hide.Bill Bennett is so taken in by gambling, he can hardly stay away from it-or some other indirect form of it. Hence he is caught! This is why I believe in the perfect crime and the imperfect criminal. A criminal might get by with a crime simply by accident or someone overlooking something or making a human mistake. HOWEVER if he tends towards bad or violent behavior, he will repeat that behavior until he IS caught! CRIMINAL MINDS is a good example of this. I have NEVER had the impression in all I have read that you have written- that you were trying to say,”Look at me-I am sooooo virtuous!” You have never suggested such a thing. In fact you tell us to judge people by Biblical standards of right and wrong no matter who they are. Or what they are advocating or what they have done. I greatly admire your tact. Because you are also saying’ watch-and if I EVER slip up and do any of this, let me know!’ That is the sign of a sincere and decent person.I am a writer and currently write for a newspaper in another state-something I started 7 years ago to help out a friend of mine. When she sold the paper, the new owners asked me to stay on and since I can work from home, I did. Several years ago from about 1991-1997 I worked as a reservationist for Marriott. As an employee, I couldn’t complain about the way I was treated. It was fine. But about the time I left, things were changing within the organization and many of us did not like what was going on. I can explain this some time to you privately if you wish. But it was also about this same time that I heard gambling was to be allowed in the Marriott hotels and resorts in the ABC Islands off the coast of Venezuela. Since I did not wish to be involved in any of this and all the attendant problems which always go with it, I went ahead and resigned. I do not think Marriott is doing as well today as it did when I originally went to work for them. Take care- Amy
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Hi Paul,
great article on the psychopaths and very good replies from your readers.
This topic is so important, because it is so massively used by the Illuminati/Elite to spiritually pacify people. The New Age and Love and Light community is the pinnacle of this ''Forgive and Forget or don't even look'' attitude, but the churches and religions preach it of course too.
The Powers that Be, do not want true spiritual warriors to take on their power and stand up to In-Justice and Tyranny, and that is why they have created religions, which the New Age movement is a part of, to distort and corrupt true spirituality.
Entire armies and legions of dumbed down soldiers and insane psychopaths are ok, but save us from the positive spiritual warriors, they are the Devil :-)
What you said that the Elite has been promoting the perception that words are more important than actions is so true. Like they say in this video babbaling comes from Babylon :-)
Here the link:
http://www.youtube.com/watch?v=ft9NiCJMG9E
Thanks again Paul (VK)
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Dear Sir,
You are SO right about The Powers That B being sociopaths/psychopaths. And they do not even know it or see it, because they are actually convinced that to NOT have ANY compassion is a QUALITY that proves them more intelligent than us! An excellent book documenting this 99.99% lack of empathy or compassion in a small percent of the population (who then are selected upwards by TPTB) is "Political Ponerology" (by Andrew M Lobaczewski) .
Maybe you could sell this book on your website; or else put a link to the website that sells it. www.ponerology.com
I will not in any way profit if the sales of that book go up.
Many Blessings,
Johan
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This is NOT the Apocalypse, and NOT the End Times
by Joshua Daniels
director@sealionsfoundation.com
www.sealionsfoundation.com
There is a lot of pseudo-Biblical nonsense floating around the web as if its writers had actually read a Bible, and I’m tired of it. The Gulf Oil Blowout has them particularly exercised, and the gullible eat it up.
Yes, the BP Blowout was deliberate. Anyone who can read can understand that. No, it’s not predicted anywhere in the Bible. Anyone who can read can understand that, too.
If you don’t believe the Bible is divinely-inspired, good for you, but don’t quote it as a source. If it’s not divinely inspired, it’s drivel; its own clear statements leave no middle ground. If you do believe the Bible is divinely inspired, read it instead of using misquotes from it to support your nihilistic hope for the end of personal responsibility.
Here’s one that’s making the rounds right now: the Gulf Oil Blowout is predicted in Revelation 8:8, “…a third of the sea turned into blood…” Notice that quote begins and ends with ellipses. They tell you that words in the original sentence have not been included in the quote. What did they leave out? Have a look:
8The second angel sounded his trumpet, and something like a huge mountain, all ablaze, was thrown into the sea. A third of the sea turned into blood, 9a third of the living creatures in the sea died, and a third of the ships were destroyed.
That prophecy is clearer than anything Nostradamus ever dreamed of. Clearly, this fellow can communicate. Since the author doesn’t know what it is, he writes, “…something like a huge mountain…” But then he gets specific, because he knows what he’s seeing: a third of the sea turned into blood when the blazing mountain was thrown into the sea.
How does he know it’s blood? In the entire Book of Revelation, all five senses were functioning for the entire vision. He tasted, smelled, touched, heard, and saw things. For an author of this quality, if a third of the sea turned red but did not smell of blood, or he did not have some other evidence that it was blood, he would have written, “…became like blood.” This author was familiar with the entire Tanakh (Old Testament), and would have read 2 Kings 3:22, “To the Moabites across the way, the water looked red—like blood.” (emphasis added)
Meaning, he was part of a writing tradition that dealt in facts as facts and appearances as appearances, and there’s no evidence that they ever mistook one for the other. If he said something looked like a mountain, then it looked like a mountain but he wasn’t sure what it was. If he said water turned into blood, then it turned into blood in his vision, not an oil slick. The only wiggle room anyone has is that the Greek word translated “became” in “became blood” can easily be figurative.
But, no matter how literal the blood is, the change to the sea is caused by “something like” a flaming mountain being thrown into it. “Thrown” is a deliberate act; the authors of the Bible understood the difference between falling and being thrown. Deepwater Horizon’s explosion was deliberate, but it doesn’t look like a flaming mountain: too small, too metallic, and not rocky at all.
Then there’s the fact that Revelation is a series of NUMBERED LISTS OF EVENTS. If you see something that looks like Trumpet Three, but Trumpets One and Two haven’t been blown yet, then, however bad a thing may be, it cannot be Trumpet Three.
The sea becoming blood is Trumpet Two.
It comes AFTER hail and fire mixed with blood burns up a third of the earth, a third of the trees, and ALL, count them, ALL of the green grass.
Did I miss something? Was there hail mixed with fire and blood that fell while I was watching a movie, and I missed it? You have to tell me these things, people…
Give it up, folks: when the Trumpets and Bowls of Wrath start to happen, you won’t need to edit to make events fit prophecy: it will happen as written, or it’s not fulfillment of prophecy.
Then there’s the problem of unfulfilled prophecy. If God drops the curtain now, with so many prophecies unfulfilled, he’s a liar or just an idiot: you can’t have it any other way.
Here’s a short list of just a few of the prophecies our grandkids get to experience before Trumpets get blown or Bowls start to pour:
1. Isaiah 13:12 12 I will make man scarcer than pure gold, more rare than the gold of Ophir.
1. Has there ever been a time when mankind was scarce? If there’s one thing we can do, it’s make more. BUT, with the oxygen-depleting power of the Gusher in the Gulf, and our total dependence on the oceans for our oxygen, are we about to become scarce?
2. 18 The house of Jacob will be a fire
and the house of Joseph a flame;
the house of Esau will be stubble,
and they will set it on fire and consume it.
There will be no survivors
from the house of Esau."
The LORD has spoken.
1. This one hasn’t happened yet, either. The descendants of Esau are still with us; the Rothschild family is their leading clan. Really; you can’t make this stuff up. The whole book of Obadiah is telling us of the end of the Banking Conspirators, who happen to be largely from one ethnic group which has been hiding among the Jews and pretending to be Jews for two thousand years. Even Jesus spoke of them twice, saying, both times, “They say they are Jews but they are not; they are of the Church of Satan.”
Then there are a few from Jesus himself.
3. Luke 17:26 says, "Just as it was in the days of Noah, so also will it be in the days of the Son of Man.”
1. What was it like in the days of Noah? There were transhumans living on the earth along with humans (these were the giants of Genesis 6 and later), everyone spoke one language, and, according to some non-Biblical sources, there was a world war going on at the time of the Flood. A moment’s careful thought tells me that those things aren’t happening today, nor have they happened since Jesus, so they are yet in the future, but before Revelation.
4. Matthew 24:31 And he will send his angels with a loud trumpet call, and they will gather his elect from the four winds, from one end of the heavens to the other.
1. This is one of my favorites. “The four winds” could be figurative, meaning we’re scattered across the earth, but “from one end of the heavens to the other” is definitely not. Did most of us just happen to buy airplane tickets that day, and we’re all in the sky when the big in-gathering happens? Or are we a sky-dwelling people (easier than you might think)? Perhaps we’re an interplanetary or interstellar society by then, and he’s going to gather us from multiple heavenly bodies. No matter how you slice it, this cannot be true today, so it’s still in the future, and until conditions are at least right for it, the events of Revelation cannot begin to unfold.
Folks, John the Revelator was no Nostradamus: what he saw, he wrote in plain Greek, and the translation is not obscure or tricky in any way. The hardest part for most people seems to be in accepting that if you’re not seeing what John described, you’re not seeing what John described. The next hardest part for those same people seems to be actually reading what he wrote.
If you can’t be bothered to read what someone wrote, you have no business telling anyone else about it, so cease and desist. If someone tells you the Bible says something, it behooves you to check on it. There’s a word-search function on www.biblegateway.com, and e-Sword is free at www.e-sword.com. Either way, you have no excuse anymore for not knowing the truth.
Feel free to email the author with your comments.
director@sealionsfoundation.com
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Paul:
Since taking Alli-C, I've noticed the following changes:
1.) I need fewer hours of sleep. Usually, I hit the rack around 10PM. I might get up once for the bathroom (before I was getting up at least three times). I sleep more sound,and I'm waking up refreshed at around 3AM. I'll get up and drink just one cup of coffee. Because my wife is out-of-town visiting her parents in Mexicali, I've been home-alone with just our two Basset Hounds. Anyway, I'll do the dishes and square away the kitchen. Yesterday, I vacuumed the entire house.
2.) Although my appetite has increased,I've actually lost two pounds!! I had a lot of swelling in my feet and shins from water retention. The swelling is all gone now. Also, I had a lot of water weight in the neck area below the jaw;this made me appear over-weight. Well, my face now has thinned.
3.) Now I'll be able to go all day without the need for a nap!
I was listening to your show yesterday, and I heard you mention that your son was having problems with his sinuses. Moreover, you also mentioned that you were getting hit by Chem trails. Well, guess what? We get hit by Chem trails here a lot, and I have also had problems with my sinuses. I used to wake up and have a terrible coughing hack due to the phlem build-up. This also has gone away since using Alli-C.
I'll keep taking it, and will order the gel after the first of the month.
I'll keep you posted.
Jay